Thursday, January 26

Guess what I'm thinking about...

If you are trying to banish a sexual fantasy from your head, telling yourself “I’m not going to fantasize about her” or “I won’t think about what it would be like to be intimate with him” might make it worse: In a famous psychological study from the 1980s, a group of subjects were told to think about anything but whatever they did, they were not supposed to think about a white bear. Guess what they all thought about?
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  1. BlackRabbitJanuary 26, 2012 at 6:43 PM

    Soooo....if I think about a white bear (like a polar bear or something) I won't be thinking about her as much?
    I'll give it a shot. At this point, I'll try ANYthing.... :/

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    1. Earth girlJanuary 27, 2012 at 9:19 AM

      ... my mind is full of white bears... it doesn't help a lot :)
      You shouldn't fight it. Just let yourself feel. It was the best advice I received. You must accept how you feel, and just forgive yourself you have expectations that will not going to be met.

      ...lots of love to you girl... I feel your pain...

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